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教師對家長説的話

教育孩子是個系統工程,只有家長和老師擰成一股繩,勁兒往一處使,才能有好的教育效果。在和家長接觸的過程中,有些家長還沒有意識到維護好家校關係的重要性。以下是幾個比較典型的例子,我做了簡要的分析,希望能給大家提供參考。

教師對家長説的話

“我們沒文化,孩子就全交給您了,您該打就打該罵就罵。”

老師經常會聽到家長這麼説。殊不知老師聯繫家長的目的,就是想借助家長的力量。家長這麼説等於是把教育的責任完全推給了老師,老師希望獲得幫助的目的並沒有達到。

家長沒文化,並不能成為不履行教育責任的理由,老師並不是想讓家長代替他做具體的教學工作。在很多時候,家長支持老師的工作就足夠了,但不能完全依賴老師。“該打就打該罵就罵”的授權更是和教育教學法規相違背,對老師的工作並沒有實際幫助。

“我天天都問他寫作業了沒有。”

“我們怎麼會不管孩子呢?我天天都問他寫作業了沒有?每回他都告訴我寫了。”這是老師因學生作業問題聯繫家長時常聽到的一句話。

從實際效果來看,只是簡單地問孩子作業寫了沒有幾乎等同於不管。孩子的作業字跡是否工整?正確的有多少?錯題是不是都改了?孩子在寫作業的過程中遇到什麼問題?這些都是家長需要關心的,如果有條件的話,家長可以每天抽出幾分鐘翻一翻孩子的作業本,問孩子有沒有遇到難題,是怎麼解決的。

“我總不能天天看着他學吧!”

一般來説,有的孩子自主學習的意識較弱,就需要家長的影響、教育、陪伴,以幫助孩子養成良好的學習習慣。

“看着孩子學習”大有訣竅。比如:根據作業量限定孩子做作業的時間,鼓勵孩子集中精力;關掉電視及音響,減少環境對孩子的干擾;孩子做功課時,最好陪着他做一兩道題,並及時表揚他的優點,讓他感覺到成功的喜悦,這對學習成績偏差的孩子效果會更好;家長還可以培養孩子自己檢查作業的習慣,讓孩子吸取教訓,避免今後再犯;等等。

簡單粗暴或是簡單放任。

有些家長一聽説孩子在學校表現不好就火冒三丈,當着老師的面就數落孩子,這不僅會讓老師覺得尷尬,也會給孩子帶來很大的壓力,並有可能引發孩子的逆反心理,造成其和老師的對立。還有的家長表現的倒是很民主,輕描淡寫地説幾句,過後卻不再過問,這也起不到教育作用。

一個期會考試考得不大好的孩子在日記中寫道:“很擔心爸爸知道我的成績後會揍我,沒想到他沒有打我,而是鼓勵我下次考好,我很快就把這次考試忘到九霄雲外了。”這位爸爸不打孩子是對的,但也不應過於輕描淡寫,讓孩子很快把考試忘掉。而是應和孩子一起分析沒考好的原因,針對存在的問題探討怎麼改進,制訂學習計劃並監督他執行。

總之,教育孩子既是老師應盡的責任,也離不開家長的支持。教育就像大家手拉手構成一個圈兒,參與的人越多這個圈兒也就越美越圓。

擴展閲讀

非常經典有深度的電影英文台詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風景,聽陌生的歌,然後在某個不經意的瞬間,你會發現,原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當燈滅了,你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因為你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情,要麼讓人成熟,要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜,大多數人的愛情,都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人,用一小時的`時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最後呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨着年齡的增長,終於領悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最後成為記憶裏不再重要的某一天,我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走,這不是靜止火車裏,與相鄰列車交錯時,彷彿自己在前進的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬於自己的,不要放棄。已經失去的,留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離,這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數,我於是後退一步,靜靜的看着,直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,應該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠都沒有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發現,它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

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