雙語閲讀：讓你變得健談的方法

Are you a good conversationalist? What makes someone a good conversationalist? Being a good conversationalist is important in every context, be it in business, social, or dating. 你是不是一名好的健談者？什麼能讓你變得健談呢？無論在何種情況下，作為一名好的健談者都是非常重要的，無論是商業、還是社交或是約會。

I don't think there are any “tricks” or shady techniques you have to apply to be a great conversationalist. Below are ten timeless rules I apply to all my conversations:我認為要想成為好的健談者，不需要任何的“招數”或不正當的手法。

genuinely interested in the person。對談話的人真正感興趣

Who is this person? What's on his/her mind? What does he/she enjoy doing? What motivates him/her in life? These are the questions I have for every single person I meet. Since people form the core of my life purpose （to help others grow）， my genuine interest in people, from who they are to what they do, comes naturally. 這個人是誰？他/她在想什麼？他/她喜歡做什麼？什麼激勵着他/她的生活？我每遇見一個人，我都會想這樣的問題。由於人們形成了我生活目標的核心（幫助他人成長）， 我對他人的興趣，從他們是誰到他們做什麼，就很自然地產生了。

Such genuine interest, not an artificial one, is essential to making a conversation fly. If you are not interested in the other person, then why speak to him/her to begin with? Move on to someone you really want to talk to. Life is too short to be spent doing things you don't like。這樣的興趣是發自內心的.，而不是虛假的， 這是讓談話出彩的必要條件。如果你對他人不敢興趣，為什麼要和他/她説話呢？去和你真正想談話的人説話。生活苦短，不要把它浪費在你不喜歡的事情上。