宋丹丹的話

宋丹丹，一個我們大家知道讓大家喜歡的喜劇明星，她和英達10年的婚姻也以分手而結束。她説現在的婚姻讓她非常幸福，但是，她沒有明白地説和現在的丈夫如何相處(當然，她也沒有説和英達分手的具體原因，這在演藝圈是比較健康的行為。

因為，明星們聽説有這樣一個“習慣”，叫“醜聞不如新聞”。一般人可能難以理解。)她只是説，其實女人在婚姻中很容易犯糊度。當選擇婚姻時候，希望找一位有經濟實力的，會賺錢的，可是，結婚以後，發現丈夫不如別人家丈夫那樣有時間陪自己，就埋怨丈夫沒有人家那樣愛自己，心中就非常渴望擁有親情;而那些擁有親情的女人就埋怨丈夫沒有人家那樣會賺錢，心中就非常渴望擁有財富，就不會體會到婚姻中親情的幸福。我們可以好好想想，如果一個男人天天陪在你身邊，他有時間去賺錢嗎?如果一個男人天天在外面賺錢，他能象別人家丈夫那樣有時間陪你嗎?所以，她會讓她的先生非常“自由”，非常有自己活動的“空間”，非常有男人的“尊嚴”。

陽光提醒大家，婚姻中的女人一定和戀愛中的女孩不一樣，要學會象宋丹丹一樣，做一個聰明女人，宋丹丹的話女人們可以深思

之前宋丹丹在微博中感慨現在的年輕演員排場大、架子大，説了一堆大實話。沒曾想引起了娛樂圈一陣不小的風波，李小璐更被波及。昨天凌晨，宋丹丹因為此事在微博中放話自己惹了禍，還調侃到自己正處於更年期，最後還放話以後在微博中再也“不放炮了”。

宋丹丹曾説：“看有的年輕演員，拍戲帶好幾個助理，真佩服這股不怕麻煩的勁頭兒。按説四個、五個咱也僱得起，就是操不起那心，吃什麼、挨哪兒歇着、會不會給劇組添亂，每頓你家拿走好幾份盒飯好意思嗎?……”沒想到此言一出，有網友直指她説的就是李小璐。

這下惹了禍的宋丹丹不淡定了，在微博澄清：“壞了，瞎了，出事了。有人對號入座開始猜我在説誰，小璐説有記者以為是她，她可真夠冤的。

其實年輕人願意比排場就比吧，反正自個兒掙的錢，姐姐看不慣純屬更年期，大夥兒都甭理我。路長着呢，年輕人且得給時間才長大呢，指不定哪天突然你就明白了：有沒有本事，受不受尊重真不在於身後站多少人，姐姐不騙你!”

但宋丹丹昨天凌晨繼續更新微博説以後再也不“放炮”了，“本來已經跟我爸保證了不再得罪人，結果前天得罪的還不是一個，是一羣……明兒得回家跟我爸吃午飯，誰要説我不含糊我真跟誰急。親愛的粉絲們啊，給我點兒勇氣吧，以後我再也不"放炮"了……”。

擴展閲讀：

非常經典有深度的電影英文台詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情，要麼讓人成熟，要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨着年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶裏不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走，這不是靜止火車裏，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的.，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看着，直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒有感性，就要理性;如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.