委婉拒絕的話

不是你的原因，是我自己的原因。(是你的原因)

告訴他你很優秀但是可惜我不喜歡男人,我是GAY

你人很好~但我不適合你~

女生拒絕愛情時常用委婉短信

我把愛情弄丟了~~

我不想跟同事約會。(即使你在太陽系以外，我也不會跟你約會)

我們的年紀不太般配。(第一眼看見你就絕對你來自侏羅紀)

我現在的生活很複雜。(我不想看到你整天跟辦公室的其他女孩嘻嘻哈哈)

我一直把你當作我的哥哥。(我只需要你的關心不需要你的關愛)

我已經有男朋友了。(我家的公貓比你還可愛)

我説的方法不是立杆見影的，不過這的確很委婉~

如果是不是很熟的人就可以説

“我們可以先作朋友嗎?我還不瞭解你啦...”

如果是熟人，就可以説

“你當一陣我的哥哥(妹妹)吧，我現在沒做好心理準備呢...”

如果是因為比較不喜歡的人，可以説：

“我感覺我適合你啊，不過我可以幫你介紹一個更好的(如果真要介紹就介紹個也不是很熟的，或者適合他的人)

不管怎麼説，儘量不要傷到人家，他不會僅僅是失望的，還會覺得沒有面子，生氣之類的，以後和你的關係可能也會產生隔膜。

首先拒絕的話要短，説得太多反而會讓人產生誤解。語氣要莊重，這樣才會讓他感到自慚形穢，讓他意識到自己這樣的想法是多麼不應該。

你好 你的信我已收到，現在我們都處在學習的關鍵時期，我不想為別的事情分心，請你理解。

你好，收到你的信我很為難，你很優秀，但是我們都還小，應該把精力用到更重要的地方，快考試了，我不想受到干擾。請你尊重我的選擇。

或者一笑置之，乾脆不回信，讓他們寫上幾次後，看你沒什麼反應，一般都會知難而退的。

對那些胡攪蠻纏自認執着的，你必須清楚的表明立場，一般男生也不會自討沒趣。

I’m afraid such information is confidential.

很抱歉。這是保密資料。

That’s very kind of you, but no, thank you.

你真好，但我真的不需要。謝謝。

That won’t be necessary, sir, but thank you all the same.

先生，這完全不需要。但我依然要感謝你。

I’m afraid we can't do that.

很抱歉。我幫不到你。

No. Thanks for your help.

不用了。謝謝你的幫忙。

Thank you, but it's not necessary.

謝謝你，但是不用麻煩你了。

No. I can do it on my own. Thanks.

不用了，我自己可以。謝謝。

No, thanks. I'm just browsing.

不用了，謝謝。我只是隨便逛逛。

No, thank you. I carry by myself.

不用了，謝謝，我自己搬。

擴展閲讀：

非常經典有深度的電影英文台詞

1.一個人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風景，聽陌生的歌，然後在某個不經意的瞬間，你會發現，原本是費盡心機想要忘記的事情真的就那麼忘記了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福，不是長生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活願望達成。當你想吃的時候有得吃，想被愛的時候有人來愛你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當燈滅了，你會發現你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最後可以給你力量的.人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.愛情，要麼讓人成熟，要麼讓人墮落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重。可惜，大多數人的愛情，都是負重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會用一分鐘的時間去認識一個人，用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人，再用一天的時間去愛上一個人，到最後呢，卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬於你的幸福之後，你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富，它讓你學會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨着年齡的增長，終於領悟到愛一個人，就算用一輩子的時間，還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人，體諒這個人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.當明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最後成為記憶裏不再重要的某一天，我們突然發現自己在不知不覺中已被時間推着向前走，這不是靜止火車裏，與相鄰列車交錯時，彷彿自己在前進的錯覺，而是我們真實的在成長，在這件事裏成了另一個自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾經擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬於自己的，不要放棄。已經失去的，留作回憶。

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜歡並習慣了對變化的東西保持着距離，這樣才會知道什麼是最不會被時間拋棄的準則。比如愛一個人，充滿變數，我於是後退一步，靜靜的看着，直到看見真誠的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那麼男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個人捨棄世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前，應該一直留有一個地方，獨自留在那裏。然後去愛。不知道是什麼，不知道是誰，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發現，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來日歲月，會讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時日一起成長。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在這個世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒有感性，就要理性;如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了，她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時間，一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.